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Tuesday, January 31, 2012

Eight Myths of Divorce Mediation

[This is a re-posted article from Council member, Joanne Naiman.]

Traditionally couples divorce as adversaries, hiring separate attorneys to wrangle over child custody and support, maintenance, assets and anything else they care about, even the dog. It's high stakes poker. Ante up: legal costs, kids, stress.

But there's another way. Increasingly couples are turning to divorce mediation as a realistic and healthier alternative. A couple meets with a mediator to hammer out an agreement covering all the terms of their divorce, including finances and child custody. This usually takes six to 10 sessions and costs roughly $5,000. As a litigator and mediator I prefer to mediate, if appropriate. It's faster, cheaper and, most importantly, less acrimonious, which is less damaging, not just for a couple, but also their children.

The problem for some -- and you know who you are...

Read the rest at The Huffington Post

http://www.huffingtonpost.com/joanne-naiman/divorce-mediation-myths_b_831334.html

Joanne Naiman can also be found on Twitter

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2 comments:

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Some Western jurisdictions have a no-fault divorce system, which requires no allegation or proof of fault of either party. The barest of assertions suffice. For example, in countries that require "irretrievable breakdown", the mere assertion that the marriage has broken down will satisfy the judicial officer. In other jurisdictions requiring irreconcilable differences, the mere allegation that the marriage has been destroyed by these differences is enough for granting a divorce. Courts will not inquire into facts. A "yes" is enough, even if the other party vehemently says "no".
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Divorce mediation is a non-adversarial method of achieving your divorce objectives through moderated communication and discussion rather than time-consuming and costly litigation. Your divorce mediator will work with you to resolve your differences in a professional and amicable manner with the goal of accomplishing your divorce outside of the courtroom.
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